Because you KNOW you WANT to.
I was not a virgin, but I still had SO many rules about sex. Well, mostly just that you had to wait until the third date … or until they loved you (or something like that).
I was really trying to keep the total number of men I slept with under TEN.
At first, I had always wanted to count them on ONE hand, but once I slept with five I realized I had to bump my number up since I STILL wasn’t married yet — but definitely no more than that! Keeping it under 10 was good.